Most of us think that we peak sexually in our thirties and that it is all downhill from there, well, this couldn’t be farther from the truth. Naturally, you will never have the energy and stamina you had in your late teens and your early twenties, but you will have a lot of experience behind you, and it is that experience that makes the sex that much better. This is especially true if you start living your true life later on. A lot of T-girls are not ready to transition in their teens and get to open up and start their transition later on in life.
Now, having a senior sex partner who is more experienced means that you both know who you are, what you want, and that you are not afraid to share that with one another. Being able to be your true self with your partner regardless of age is what makes sex great, but for most trans girls that do come a bit later in life, and that is precisely why they shouldn’t feel like they missed out on the best part. Just check out some older TS Snapchat Accounts, you will see that those girls know how to party and are happy to show off their age.
But if you still feel like your best sex days are behind you, here are some facts that will dispute that.
After we turn fifty the one thing is certain, we know ourselves a lot better than we ever did. You know who you are as a person, what your likes and dislikes are, and what you are comfortable with in bed. This has a very positive effect on your self-confidence and that shows both in your everyday life and in the bedroom.
We have all seen the high demand for skilled MILFs in porn, and it is no different within the trans adult entertainment industry, but also in life. There is something special about an experienced lady who knows exactly who she is and what she wants.
Feeling good about yourself means that you are brave enough to approach someone you like, be direct regarding what your preferences are, and secure enough that you can perform in the bedroom, so to speak.
When you were younger it was more about performing the deed itself or lasting longer, but rarely did you focus on experimentation, foreplay, and discovering ways to make it more fun for you. So now that you have ‘been there and done that’ you are much more familiar with your preferences, and more importantly much more comfortable about asking your partner whether they are interested in engaging in that particular sex play.
Now, if, like older trans ladies you did not come out as trans when you were younger, you might have tried all the conventional stuff so that you fit in better. Now, that you are your true self it is all about enjoying it and focusing on what brings you pleasure. You can always check out some femboy Snapchat accounts for the fresh content and some new ideas on what to do in the bedroom, but they need to be aligned with what you are the most comfortable with.
It is not about keeping the tempo or lasting longer, now it is about enhancing the pleasure levels and discovering what other bedroom practices have a positive effect on you.
When you enter a relationship later on in life, a lot of pressures of the early years are gone. The main focus of your relationship at this point is having fun and enjoying each other’s company. This has a very positive effect on your sex life as well, you can simply give in, enjoy the bedroom games and have fun stress and worry-free.
It is very clear that a situation such as this one brings clarity to a relationship, you know where you stand and what you want from your partner and that is something that transfers into the bedroom as well making the intimate interaction a lot more relaxed and adventurous. And don’t you worry, if you have transitioned later in life you are definitely not alone - according to the NHS, 75 people aged between 61 and 71 had gender reassignment operations in the seven years to 2015-16, and that’s not counting people who quietly transition without surgery. These trans baby boomers are now beginning to challenge received ideas, not just about gender but age, and the capacity of older people to live bold, adventurous lives. And yes that includes oh so much great sex.
In the first half of our lives, we seem to be rushing somewhere at all times. Whether it is to finish school, build a career, have a family, and so on. And more often than not this ends up in us being virtually exhausted in the evenings, which, naturally affects our sex life.
But as we get to a certain age, all those things stay in the past and that comes with a certain level of freedom. This, of course, has a high positive effect on your performance, and you can even afford to prolong the foreplay significantly If that is the sort of thing you like. Not to mention that you can include some porn or fun shemale Snapchat content just to spice things up a bit. You have all this time to use wisely and really improve your sex life, not to mention find out what you might have overlooked when rushing in the past.
So as you can see, for trans ladies sex definitely gets more fun and interesting later in life, as other obligations and goals are met, you are able to free up more time, try new things and do all that with a lot more confidence than you ever could before. But most importantly you grow into who you really are, grow to love, and respect yourself and that leads to a sexual liberation of the highest level.