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Ready to Find Love as A Transsexual?

We live in a society that is still judgmental to those that decide to bend what the majority thinks is socially acceptable. If we are lucky, we can find people who accept us for who we are and there is no reason to justify our life choices and views. But a lot of people are not that lucky. Dating in this day and age is difficult enough but dating as a transsexual has its own set of obstacles. 

The good news is it is not something to run from, on the contrary, having a healthy relationship and being loved is something every human being deserves to experience. And luckily, if you know where to look you might be surprised by the amount of love you will find. Just have a look at the sheer number of transexual Snapchat usernames, and at the amazing wealth of followers that they all have. A positive change is happening, and you deserve to be a part of it. 

Look around you, you might have missed something

When we feel like there is no one for us, and that no one will accept us for who we are, all we need to do is look around to find out it is simply not the case. You are surrounded by people who care, they might not be your primary family, but they are there for you. 

Well, among those people there might be someone who wants more, and you just have noticed it. So, take a step back and reexamine the relationships you have already created, some of them might lead to a very successful transsexual dating experience that you might not expect. 

Don’t be surprised, it happens to all of us, while we are searching for that perfect love, the one we need might be staring us in the face at this very moment. This is where social networks can be very useful you might already belong to a group or have interacted with a possible match you just don’t know it. When we are insecure we tend to overlook the obvious signals people are sending, and that needs to change if we want to meet someone. 

The internet is your playground – use it wisely

The internet can be your best option for finding a soulmate if you know how to use it. First and foremost, you need to find reputable dating sites that cater to a transsexual crowd, that will present a safe zone for you to meet people who are not just judgment-free but are actually excited to go on a TS date with you.

 There are more of them than you think, and no not all of them are transsexual, there are those who find trans men and women beautiful and attractive just as they are and want to build something serious with them. But, if we are being honest, there might be a bad apple or two there as well, but that shouldn’t discourage you, just be careful, take your time to really check who it is you are communicating online with before you go on that first date. 

And with social media and other channels ensuring that the person you are talking to is for real is not that difficult. The one thing is to make sure that you are on the same page. Transexual porn is very popular, and some might be interested in just great sex, so be mindful and don’t get your heart broken. The fact is, transsexual pornstars are dominating the industry, and you can see just the number of followers Khloe Sandoval or Ts Candice have. So be clear about what you expect from the date you are going on, and don’t settle for anything, even if your date tries to push for something more than you are willing to give. 

Surround yourself with a loving community

As we have mentioned in the first paragraph, you might want to look around you to see who is there waiting to be seen by you. There is a good chance that you can find your soulmate in an LGBT support group. It is important that small communities stay together and provide support to each other. Those are probably the only people who truly understand the whole process of transition and everything you have gone through, so it is no surprise that a love bond can be formed there. 

You are honest and open when you talk within the support group, so you get to be truly yourself and the person who likes you just the way you are is someone worth dating. So, just pay attention, you might be missing some signals, and it would be a shame not to give love a chance with someone who might be your soulmate. You can then meet up on social media, DM each other, and eventually, go on a date. Take it as slow as you need, after al if they are the right person for you, they will understand. 


These are just some of the options for you, as a transsexual to not only find love but also build a relationship and a long-lasting partnership. We are not going to pretend that it is as easy as simply walking into a bar and approaching some. 

The trans community faces a lot of bigotry and rejection, but that is not a reason to give up on love and having someone to share everything with. Just because it is not easy doesn’t mean you should not give your best shot and get the love you deserve. 

It might seem strange but just look at the adult entertainment industry, where transsexual pornstars went from being in B and C productions and the whole genre is treated as taboo to the mainstream, winning awards and filling with all the major production houses. That means that there is a shift, people are ready to recognize how beautiful shemale and trans women are. They are following them on  T-girl Snapchat accounts and subscribing to the content they share. There is no reason this is not transferable to the real world, where there can be real relationships and love., not just attraction.