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Fun Fetishes for Trans Lovers to Play with in the Bedroom

We are aroused by different stimuli, and some of them might not what society deems as proper, but it doesn’t mean we should hide away from it. At the very least we should experiment with our fetishes, especially if we have a willing partner who is just as curious in the bedroom department.

 The Trans community is usually more free and open about what they want and need, in a way they are far braver, and that is what makes them amazing partners and lovers. Even in the porn world, transexual Snapchat usernames are always getting more fans as they are more direct and willing to interact with their followers. But if you are still a bit hesitant about including all your fetishes in your sex play, here are some more common ones that can spice up your sex life without making you or your partner feel uncomfortable.

Who’s up for some light spanking 

If being dominant is a part of your fetish then the first step would definitely be spanking. But first, it is important that you clear it with your partner, it would not be a good idea to catch them off guard and may even result in an unpleasant conversation. So have a sit down tell your significant other what you would like to try in the bedroom and then just go for it. Make sure you communicate that it is not porn but rather real life. Sadly, BDSM porn is known for featuring trans actresses, and so your partner might get the wrong idea. It is perfectly fine if this particular play is not what you are comfortable with. 

Now, let’s just deal with some technicalities. There is a certain art to spanking, from the amount of force you utilize to the location. So you should definitely test out what feels the best. Start off slowly, make sure you alternate because being hit in the same place over and over again even if it is just a light spank can become painful, and then just follow your partner’s lead, see how they react, and adjust the strength and frequency accordingly. But most importantly established trust so that you know that it is a sex play, not someone wanting to hurt you. Yes, T-girls like Aspen Brooks usually know exactly what they are doing when you watch their BDSM porn on Kink, but give your partner time to learn the swings and intensities and you might discover it is one of your favorite fetishes. 

Bondage? Yes, please!

Another chapter that you can take from the BDSM fetish book. Bondage can be very fun and is for a lot of people a very common fetish. Much like spanking it is about dominance and submissiveness. In this case, the person who is tied up relinquishes all control which a lot of people find very stimulating. Especially if you are always in control of your life or if you have a very demanding job that has you making important decisions. That moment when your hands are literally tied, and you have to give up control is incredibly inspiring and can lead to a lot of fun in the bedroom. Just make sure that you use proper rope, preferably Japanese silk one, and that you practice knotting, as you need to be tied up tight but not too tight so as to avoid breaking circulation. But with a bit of practice, it is very achievable 

You will find bondage porn in all genres from gay to Japanese and trans. It is a very common kink and one that everyone can enjoy. But once again you need to say what you are comfortable with. In some occasions, because trans girls are not sure about themselves they might go with whatever their partner wants and that can leave very negative psychological consequences. So, start, maybe, with some fury cuffs, and then work your way up from that if it turns out that it is something you are interested in. 

Oh my, some role play is always a must

Finally, you can always bring some role play into the mix. Depending on your personal preferences and those of your partner, you can assume different roles and interact with each other in character. That makes things a lot more fun and interesting. 

And if you want, you can go a step further and add costumes and new locations into the mix so as to enhance the effects of this particular fetish. Just make sure you are both on board when it comes to what these characters you have created can and can’t do.

 Now, with one of both of you being trans, it allows for such an amazing experience because you can fully inhabit the role that you are playing thus feeling a significant sense of freedom regarding who you are and what your needs and desires are. It is just fun to play around with different ideas and roles that can, in the end, lead to some great sex, one that would be memorable for both of you. And if you need some inspiration, feel free to check some T-Girl Snapchat channels for content dealing in this precise fetish, you are definitely going to light up the flame in the bedroom.

There you go, introducing a fun fetish into your bedroom is not that hard. All it takes is open communication with your partner and you are on your way. This goes for all genders and it doesn’t matter how you declare yourself. You can enjoy spanking or roleplaying at any time just as long as you have a clear line of communication with your lover. Don’t let your transness define your sexual taste, you can be completely not interested in any of it and just prefer the good old bareback doggy style. But if you are hiding that kinky side, make sure you let it out to play from time to time.